Wednesday, October 15, 2008

GREETINGS.

no, they're not dancing or are they gay. they're just saying helloCulture. To many (or me at least), that word means, "a particular form or stage of civilization, as that of a certain nation or period: Singaporean culture" (dictionary.com).

However, in the context of communication, culture refers to "templates for living". These templates tell us who we are, what groups we belong to, and how we live our lives. They influence and interpret behaviour. Culture is learned, shared, dynamic and multifaceted.

There are many ways to greet people all over the world. For instance, according to this web article, if you were to spit at someone's feet here in Singapore, it would be considered pretty offensive and illegal. However, that's the way some South-East Africans say hello to each other (though they only pretend to spit).

In a world as diverse as ours, it is important to respect others' culture, lest it leads to unnecessary misunderstandings. It is easier said than done, but we have to go against our human tendency to judge and conclude prematurely. Only then will the sun shine brighter and birds sing louder- the world will be an infinitely better place! :)

2 comments:

We all know one. said...

hey josh...

yes culture, whether we like it or not, shapes our very lives, the way we do things, the way we see things, and that includes greetings!

just like how we both greet one another (pretence of stubbing one's cigarette on the other's arm, with style), while smirking at those bemused and amused, different cultures have different forms of greetings. it doesn't have to be accepted by all, of course, but unique greetings certainly stand out.

no doubt each and everyone of us have differring mindsets, but it is through accepting such differences, that the world seems more beautiful.

let us all embrace cultures, and ignore the vultures.

Sonia said...

yes, it's definitely important to respect the culture of others. i wonder if we have a distinct singaporean culture though, or if it's a mix of cultures we've adapted thanks to cultural imperialism.